It's a Phillies Phriday in the cold and rain of October, but we've got bigger things in mind here at Another Delco Guy.
Thirty years ago, my dear brother came into this world. One might say it's never been quite the same as it was before his birth.
That's right, Matt is 30!
I won't go into all the gory details about how he used to keep me up all night rocking in his sleep, or how I taught him to throw that nasty Wiffle Ball curve he still breaks out now and then, but I will say this. There are few people in the world whose advice and counsel means more to me that my brother's.
But he's growing old now. He has left his youth behind and bought the family's ancestral home. He's begun to worry about things like his grass and new siding and the darn fool kids who blare their music until all hours. I'm sure he's got a bucket list somewhere that he's looking at and wondering how he will ever get to all these things in his waning years.
Thus we're going to do a Friday Fantastic Four that is focused on growing old and what you have left to do. you might have done them before and need another taste, or they may be things that you just feel like you must do to fulfill your destiny (or density).
What four things do you most want to do before you can't do them anymore?
- Visit Ireland and Poland. They are pretty different laces, but they are part of me and I want to get there. Sooner rather than later if possible.
- Write that book. I still feel like it's in there somewhere, but has lost its way.
- Own a vacation home. Been there once, but it seems to be the quintessential mark of having 'made it' as an American. I'd like to get back there.
- See John and Emma become successes on their own. It's a very fatherly thing, but nothing would please me more. I'd give up the other three easily to see this one.